January represents a new start with new goals.
As the year comes to an end and 2023 quickly approaches, many of us are preparing to set resolutions. January, for most of us, represents a new start or a fresh beginning, offering a blank slate. Subsequently, we tend to focus on personal goals and promises we make to ourselves to do and be better than the previous year. This tradition has dated back over 4,000 years and we have steadfastly held to this tradition. However, very few individuals are able to follow through with and successfully “achieve” their goals.
Resolutions have become overly ambitious or unrealistic goals that are almost always impossible to attain and or maintain. They are also outcome-result focused versus process-focused—there is a lot more emphasis on the goal itself as opposed to the process and experience. As a result, a failed goal tends to negatively affect our mental health. We get upset that we didn’t meet the goal—the number on the scale, a higher status, the life milestone— and end up discouraged, fueling or perpetuating feelings of shame and self-doubt.
What if we shifted our focus and took a different approach? What if we focused on self-development and empowerment versus extreme change and self-denial? Start the year with self-reflection and intention setting. This alternative, while still encouraging growth, allows for more flexibility and self-compassion, as well as requires us to be more mindful in our everyday lives.
As you look forward, consider this past year and some of the experiences. Ask yourself and reflect on the following questions.
Now that you have engaged in self-reflection, consider some of your areas for growth or things you may want to prioritize or reprioritize over the next year. Consider some of the changes in behavior you may need to make and create a plan to help facilitate these priorities. Write down your intentions as affirmative statements and then action steps you can take to be more intentional.
Post these intentions somewhere visible in your home to remind you of your commitment to growth. Read them daily, preferably before you start your day, so they are at the forefront of your mind.
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